Saturday, February 16, 2013

First Day in #Delhi2013


My Bedroom Window from the Terrace

I can't believe I've been in Delhi for less than 24 hours. I'm already lying in bed stifling sobs, crying softly  so as not to disturb my roommates. In true #Delhi2013 style I'm not crying for me or what I've experienced through cancer. I'm crying because one roommate (Dr. Alex) shared a beautiful letter her daughter wrote about her experience with cancer. Yes, she fears prematurely losing someone she loves, but her letter describes how her mother's cancer inspired her to be a better person. (I'm not blog-savvy yet: http://convio.cancer.ca/site/TR/RelayForLife/RFL_ON_odd_?px=4062912&pg=personal&fr_id=13496)

Below follows a rough synopsis - I'm working on very little sleep here (more later) - of the trip to & arrival in Delhi.

LAX to DEL via LHR
I flew British Airways to London, then on to Delhi. The LAX customer service was pretty atrocious - it reminded me of stories I would hear about expats in London.  They even wouldn't issue a boarding pass to Delhi because Economy Premium was oversold by 10 seats.

My choice: fly to London and trust that I'll get a seat or call Mom & yell,  "turn around!" But as Angel often says of traveling to India, "you just have to say, "India, here I am!" I just didn't realize India would meet me at LAX.

I took the flight - I still wonder what they meant by "premium economy." (I'm thinking more like "God awful" and "don't plan to sleep - or use your tray if you're neighbor is resting on the cover.) 

Once I arrived in London everything changed. I didn't have to wait in the "queue" for my boarding pass - it was done in an instant. But the true coup de grace was the surprise upgrade to Business Class at the gate.

Champagne upon arrival at my seat? Check.
Scottish smoked salmon (again)? Check.
Seat that folds completely flat as a bed? Check mate - I was out like a light for 8 hours.

Accommodations

Our group is spread out amongst a community in South Central Delhi (well it is on the map, anyway). I learned during an afternoon walk in the rain (well, really slide around in the mud while trying to avoid getting hit by cars & motorcycles going every which way super fast while honking their horns*) that it is a protected community. I think it's a middle class area. This morning a hawker or two walked up the street and yelled about their items for sale - I have no idea what they were selling.

(*Today I heard whoever honks first has the right of way here. Is this true?)

I landed in one of the rooms with two other roommates - both Canadian. (I love that our group is heavily Canadian. Our countries don't socialize enough...)  We are on the second floor of a two-story flat that has its main floor on the third floor of our building. (Whew!) The stairs remind me of Jenn's 5th floor walk-up in Manhattan...

Losing My Old Self
Here's the funniest part - I keep getting lost. Tonight was the worst. My usually rock-solid sense of direction didn't follow me off the plane this morning.  In this environment you can't help but wonder the deeper meaning of something like this. Does this mean I lack direction? Or does this mean I have a mean case of an insidious non-drowsy jet lag? Or both?

Thank You
It's clear I and the #Delhi2013 Dozen are definitely going to have an intense, truly life changing experience here. Thank you to everyone who supported me every step of the way. You have no idea how hard I depended on my relationships to get me through treatment. I am still relying on you, and I am so grateful for your enthusiastic support.

Cecily
 P.S. I apologize for the lengthy post. And this doesn't even come close to all I wanted to tell you!

Sunday, October 7, 2012

Watch It

Today I finished watching the 4-hour Independent Lens documentary based on the book "Women Hold Up Half the Sky".  Although often quite difficult to watch, I also found many of the women and girls to be incredibly inspiring.  I think every woman should see it.  Anything else I can say about this documentary won't even come close to doing it justice.  Just watch it.

http://www.pbs.org/independentlens/half-the-sky/

Monday, October 1, 2012

#Delhi2013

#Delhi2013

A Fresh Chapter Foundation http://www.afreshchapter.com is organizing a two-week service learning trip for 12 cancer survivors to travel to New Delhi, India next February. The group will consist of a diverse mix of men and women who experienced everything from prostate cancer to leukemia to breast cancer. They will volunteer with local charities that serve people in desperate need. This post - my first since being diagnosed with, and receiving treatment for, Stage II breast cancer in 2011 - describes why I hope to be one of the 12 participants on this inaugural trip.

#Delhi2013 is about stepping out of my comfort zone to explore myself while simultaneously dedicating two weeks of my life to directly serving those who are truly in need. 

I live a life of service. My law practice - Sustainable Law Group - represents nonprofit organizations and socially-responsible and sustainable businesses. I also volunteer for several charities. Every day I help my clients make the world a better place. 

My work fulfills me, but it is one giant step removed from directly serving those in need. I know my guidance helps my clients achieve their laudable missions, but I'm completely insulated from interacting with the people they serve. That's where #Delhi2013 comes in. #Delhi2013 is a wildly different way of serving others in another world altogether. 

#Delhi2013 will also force me to directly confront my recent experience with cancer. During "active" treatment (i.e., surgeries, chemotherapy & Herceptin infusions), people often asked me if my experience with cancer completely changed my outlook on life. I know that cancer has had a great impact on me, but since diagnosis I distracted myself with treatment, advocacy and work. I never stepped back to consider the bigger picture.

#Delhi2013 will be my first endeavor as a cancer survivor, and I plan to use this time away to finally understand what my experience with cancer means to me. 

I wish to join the #Delhi2013 service learning trip because I can finally do something big that's just for me. I recently turned 40. On my birthday I decided to spend the second half of my life doing things I couldn't do during the first half. #Delhi2013 is the first big step towards keeping that most important promise. 

#Delhi2013 may be the greatest commitment I can make to myself in the next few years. At the same time, I wish to dedicate my participation to my friend Robert, who died two days ago at age 40 from liver cancer. Robert was a quiet leader who stood up for people confronting discrimination. #Delhi2013 is a beautiful way to further his legacy. 

If I am selected to participate I will be fundraising to support this adventure through a phenomenal new online platform at www.volunteerforever.com. Please let me know if you would like to help me achieve this dream. 

Peace and blessings. 

Thursday, October 16, 2008

McCain in the Membrane



With all the work travel and our annual fundraising luncheon next week things have been so hectic that I haven't had time to blog. However, this picture from last night's debate is so brilliant, I just had to post.

I promise there will be more to come in November!

Thursday, October 9, 2008

Wells Fargo Won!

WELLS FARGO’S MERGER WITH WACHOVIA TO PROCEED AS WHOLE COMPANY TRANSACTION
WITH ALL OF WACHOVIA’S BANKING OPERATIONS
Merger on schedule for completion by end of 4th quarter 2008

SAN FRANCISCO, October 9, 2008 -- Wells Fargo & Company (NYSE: WFC) said today that it and Citigroup, Inc. (NYSE: C) have terminated discussions concerning a possible sale of certain banking assets of Wachovia Corporation (NYSE: C) and reaffirmed that it is proceeding with its merger with Wachovia Corporation (NYSE:WB) as a whole company transaction with all of Wachovia’s banking and other operations, requiring no financial assistance from the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation (FDIC) or any other government agency.

Wells Fargo has submitted its application to the Federal Reserve Board seeking expedited approval of the merger and the share exchange agreement previously entered into between Wachovia and Wells Fargo. Under the share exchange agreement, Wachovia is issuing Wells Fargo preferred stock that votes as a single class with Wachovia’s common stock representing 39.9 percent of Wachovia’s voting power. The acquisition of the non-banking related operations of Wachovia and the share exchange agreement have received early termination from the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), under the Hart-Scott-Rodino Act.

As previously announced, under the definitive agreement between the two companies, Wells Fargo will acquire all outstanding shares of common stock of Wachovia in a stock-for-stock transaction. In the transaction, Wells Fargo will acquire all of Wachovia Corporation and all its businesses and obligations, including its preferred equity and indebtedness, and all its banking deposits.

Wells Fargo Chairman Dick Kovacevich said the merger is “simply an incredible fit that will result in an immensely strong, stable financial services company that will carry on Wachovia’s proud tradition of being one of the very best financial institutions in the world. We’re combining the industry’s number one ranking customer service culture of Wachovia with the industry’s number one sales and cross-selling culture of Wells Fargo. The best in service and the best in sales, an unbeatable combination. We also bring to this merger our 157 years of experience in financial services and the unparalleled convenience we can offer Wachovia customers through one of the most extensive financial services distributions systems in North America. We have the highest regard for the quality and commitment and caring of Wachovia team members. We believe their demonstrated commitment to outstanding customer service and their highest standards of community leadership are identical to our own values.”

Kovacevich reiterated that the two companies have a firm, binding merger agreement, are confident the merger will be completed, that it will keep Wachovia intact and create significant value for Wachovia and Wells Fargo shareholders. Wells Fargo will record Wachovia’s credit-impaired assets at fair value. “Credit teams at Wells Fargo have had an opportunity to work with their counterparts at Wachovia,” said Kovacevich. “Much of Wachovia’s portfolio involves businesses where Wells Fargo has a significant market presence, operating history and expertise. We have had experience with such businesses through a variety of credit cycles. Given our broad based operating expertise, and specific understanding of these individual businesses we believe we have adequately evaluated the risks inherent in the portfolios as of the time of this merger agreement.”

In addition, Kovacevich said Wells Fargo is pleased that Citigroup announced that it is no longer seeking that the Wells Fargo-Wachovia Merger be enjoined. “We believe that that is the correct and right decision for our Country and our citizens and the health of our already stressed financial system, as well as our and Wachovia’s respective shareholders and stakeholders,” said Kovacevich.

"We are delighted to stride ahead with Wells Fargo in creating a coast-to-coast financial institution -- one of the strongest financial firms in the world," said Wachovia Corporation President and CEO Robert K. Steel.

The combined company will have $1.42 trillion in assets, $787 billion in deposits, 48 million customers, $258 billion assets under management in mutual funds, 10, 761 stores, 12,227 ATMs and 280,000 team members. The merger will create the nation’s premier coast-to-coast community banking presence with community banks in 39 states and the District of Columbia. Wachovia will add the following banking stores, ATMs and deposits to the combined company (Stores/ATMs as of 9/30/08; U.S. Deposits 6/30/08):

Banking stores ATMs Deposits (billions)

Alabama 141 178 $8.8
Arizona 21 44 2.7
California 193 255 37.1
Colorado 34 35 4.8
Connecticut 74 105 7.4
Delaware 20 37 3.4
Florida 712 963 71.1
Georgia 277 653 27.8
Illinois 8 9 .9
Kansas 8 8 1.2
Maryland 80 116 7.5
Mississippi 13 20 .5
North Carolina 325 649 96.2
Pennsylvania 294 457 30.9
Nevada 6 26 19.0
New Jersey 312 468 28.4
New York 84 183 15.1
South Carolina 143 275 11.7
Tennessee 17 20 .5
Texas 241 290 14.1
Virginia 290 443 25.9
Washington D.C. 32 66 6.9
Total 3325 5300 $422

The combined company will be #1 in deposit market share * in 17 of its 39 Community Banking states: Alaska, Arizona, California, Colorado, Florida, Georgia, Idaho Minnesota, Iowa, Montana, Nebraska, New Jersey, New Mexico, North Carolina, South Dakota, Texas, and Virginia. Ninety-three percent of its deposits will be in states in which it ranks #1, 2 or 3 and the combined company will rank #1 in ten of the nation’s 20 largest Metropolitan Statistical Areas (MSAs) in deposit market share. *
* excludes deposits greater than $500 million in a single banking store

Wells Fargo also is the nation’s:
  • #1 small business lender,
  • #1 agricultural lender,
  • #1 commercial real estate broker,
  • #2 largest mortgage originator,
  • #2 largest mortgage servicer,
  • #2 largest debit card issuer,
  • #1 financial services provider to middle market businesses in the western U.S and a national presence in commercial banking (29 states),
  • largest bank-owned U.S. insurance brokerage

Wells Fargo & Company is a diversified financial services company with $609 billion in assets, providing banking, insurance, investments, mortgage and consumer finance through almost 6,000 stores and the internet (wellsfargo.com) across North America and elsewhere internationally. Wells Fargo Bank, N.A. is the only bank in the U.S., and one of only two banks worldwide, to have the highest possible credit rating from both Moody’s Investors Service, “Aaa,” and Standard & Poor’s Ratings Services, “AAA.”

FORWARD-LOOKING STATEMENTS
This news release contains forward-looking statements about Wells Fargo and Wachovia and the proposed transaction between the companies. There are several factors – many beyond Wells Fargo’s control – that could cause actual results to differ significantly from expectations described in the forward-looking statements. Among these factors are the receipt of necessary regulatory approvals and the approval of Wachovia shareholders. Forward-looking statements speak only as of the date they are made, and we do not undertake any obligation to update them to reflect changes that occur after that date.

For a discussion of factors that may cause actual results to differ from expectations, refer to each company’s Quarterly Report on Form 10-Q for the quarter ended June 30, 2008, and Annual Report on Form 10-K for the year ended December 31, 2007, including information incorporated into each company’s 10-K from their respective 2007 annual reports, filed with the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) and available on the SEC’s website at www.sec.gov.

MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THE MERGER AND WHERE TO FIND IT
The proposed merger will be submitted to Wachovia Corporation shareholders for their consideration. Wells Fargo will file with the Securities and Exchange Commission (“SEC”) a registration statement on Form S-4 that will include a proxy statement of Wachovia Corporation that also constitutes a prospectus of Wells Fargo. Wachovia Corporation will mail the proxy statement-prospectus to its shareholders. Wachovia shareholders and other investors are urged to read the final proxy statement-prospectus when it becomes available because it will describe the proposed merger and contain other important information. You may obtain copies of all documents filed with the SEC regarding the proposed merger, free of charge, at the SEC’s website (www.sec.gov). You may also obtain free copies of these documents by contacting Wells Fargo or Wachovia, as follows:

Wells Fargo & Company, Attention Corporate Secretary, MAC N9305-173, Sixth and Marquette, Minneapolis, Minnesota 55479, (612) 667-0087.

Wachovia Corporation, Investor Relations, One Wachovia Center, 301 South College Street, Charlotte, North Carolina 28288, (704) 374-6782

Wells Fargo and Wachovia and their respective directors and executive officers may be deemed to be participants in the solicitation of proxies from Wachovia Corporation shareholders in connection with the proposed merger. Information about Wells Fargo’s directors and executive officers and their ownership of Wells Fargo common stock is contained in the definitive proxy statement for Wells Fargo’s 2008 annual meeting of stockholders, as filed by Wells Fargo with the SEC on Schedule 14A on March 17, 2008. Information about Wachovia’s directors and executive officers and their ownership of Wachovia common stock is contained in the definitive proxy statement for Wachovia’s 2008 annual meeting of shareholders, as filed by Wachovia with the SEC on Schedule 14A on March 10, 2008. You may obtain a free copy of these documents by contacting Wells Fargo or Wachovia at the contact information provided above. The proxy statement-prospectus for the proposed merger will provide more information about participants in the solicitation of proxies from Wachovia Corporation shareholders.

Saturday, October 4, 2008

The Citi Never Sleeps?

When I was growing up in the NY Metro area we were constantly bombarded with the jingle, "the Citi never sleeps, Citibank." Well guess who got a rude wake-up call yesterday!

This household has some very close personal ties to Wachovia, which may seem odd since Wachovia is such a new-comer to California. Needless to say, there was a whole lot of praying in this household last weekend. When we received the announcement (soon after one of the three times Zap had to get up for work at 5:30 a.m. this week) we were bummed because Citi doesn't have the best reputation for community relations leadership in CA, but we have ties there & felt satisfied that we'd be all right.

Then, all of a sudden on Thursday night, Zap just couldn't sleep. He tossed & turned for a long time & then got up to surf the web & try to quiet his mind. Nothing spectacular happened on Thursday, but for some reason that night he just couldn't rest. On Friday morning (the second time Zap had to get up for work at 5:30 this week -- so that's right, this a.m. he had to get up at 5:30 for work and yes, it's Saturday) he learned that Wells Fargo made a competing bid (against a closed deal) & Wachovia was up for grabs. So while he was inexplicably restless, Wachovia was switching suitors. Coincidence? We think not.

Overall we're much happier with the prospect of the Wells merger. They're California-based and have a long, successfuly community relations track record. And believe you me, that goes a long way in this household. According to this morning's LA Times, Citi doesn't have a case if Wells & Wachovia didn't talk before Wells submitted its larger bid. The word on the street is Wells came up with its larger offer after it had the time to review Wachovia's entire portfolio, with which it was presented in the heat of the moment last weekend. So the chances are looking pretty good that Wells & Wachovia didn't communicate.



Zap thinks he'll look good in a cowboy hat. I tend to agree.

Grand Avenue Festival

It's been such a crazy week - more on that later - that I haven't been able to post about last Sunday's Grand Avenue Festival. The Grand Avenue Festival is by far our favorite LA festival (not that there are many to choose from). It's held every year on the first Sunday of autumn in the Grand Avenue Arts District (note: I just made up that name) - from the Museum of Contemporary Art (MOCA), past Disney Hall (with RedCat - the CalARTS theater in Downtown), the Music Center (the Dorothy Chandler Pavilion, the newly renovated Mark Taper Forum & the Ahmanson Theater) & down Temple to the Cathedral Plaza. All of these venues offer free shows for the public all day long. There's also a tent on Grand Ave. for a drum circle & recitals, mariachi at the Cathedral (I'm so sorry we missed that this year) & arts & crafts for kids on the Music Center Plaza.

Zap, Zapita & I met up with one of Zapita's classmates & her father for an afternoon of arts & crafts, pizza & a few shows. On the way to lunch we listened to the Oaxacan Youth Band & watched the folklorico dancers again. After lunch we attended a special effects demonstration that Herbert Siguenza of Culture Clash ably hosted at the Mark Taper Forum, which looks much better after the two-year renovation. Here's one of the characters that was cruising the festival, encouraging people to attend the demonstration:


After the demonstration we headed over to RedCat to hear the CalARTS Latin Jazz Band perform. Everyone in the band is a current student at CalARTS (except the piano player - their teacher). They were amazing -- especially considering the fact that they first started playing together two weeks ago. Although Zap & I weren't as impressed by the vocalists, Zapita loved the woman on the left who sang one of Celia Cruz's standards.


After the Latin Jazz Band it was time to go home, but on the way out of RedCat we found a bunch of CalARTS students had made pastel pictures on the sidewalk between Grand & Hope. Bloody Mary was my favorite & is now my profile pic on Facebook.


In all it was a really fun day. I often leave the festival wondering why LA doesn't have more festivals like this each year. One thing I loved about living in SF was each district had a street festival every summer, so pretty much every weekend you could attend a festival. Also, those were especially fun because each festival reflected the culture within that district. Now that Downtown LA has experienced a renaissance there's a fantastic arts culture there, although the Grand Avenue Festival really only represents the establishment arts complex in the area. I often hear about art walks and other events in Downtown, but I'd love to see the galleries in the area organize a street festival to showcase other elements of the area. And we need a festival here in the Melrose District too.