Sunday, October 7, 2012

Watch It

Today I finished watching the 4-hour Independent Lens documentary based on the book "Women Hold Up Half the Sky".  Although often quite difficult to watch, I also found many of the women and girls to be incredibly inspiring.  I think every woman should see it.  Anything else I can say about this documentary won't even come close to doing it justice.  Just watch it.

http://www.pbs.org/independentlens/half-the-sky/

Monday, October 1, 2012

#Delhi2013

#Delhi2013

A Fresh Chapter Foundation http://www.afreshchapter.com is organizing a two-week service learning trip for 12 cancer survivors to travel to New Delhi, India next February. The group will consist of a diverse mix of men and women who experienced everything from prostate cancer to leukemia to breast cancer. They will volunteer with local charities that serve people in desperate need. This post - my first since being diagnosed with, and receiving treatment for, Stage II breast cancer in 2011 - describes why I hope to be one of the 12 participants on this inaugural trip.

#Delhi2013 is about stepping out of my comfort zone to explore myself while simultaneously dedicating two weeks of my life to directly serving those who are truly in need. 

I live a life of service. My law practice - Sustainable Law Group - represents nonprofit organizations and socially-responsible and sustainable businesses. I also volunteer for several charities. Every day I help my clients make the world a better place. 

My work fulfills me, but it is one giant step removed from directly serving those in need. I know my guidance helps my clients achieve their laudable missions, but I'm completely insulated from interacting with the people they serve. That's where #Delhi2013 comes in. #Delhi2013 is a wildly different way of serving others in another world altogether. 

#Delhi2013 will also force me to directly confront my recent experience with cancer. During "active" treatment (i.e., surgeries, chemotherapy & Herceptin infusions), people often asked me if my experience with cancer completely changed my outlook on life. I know that cancer has had a great impact on me, but since diagnosis I distracted myself with treatment, advocacy and work. I never stepped back to consider the bigger picture.

#Delhi2013 will be my first endeavor as a cancer survivor, and I plan to use this time away to finally understand what my experience with cancer means to me. 

I wish to join the #Delhi2013 service learning trip because I can finally do something big that's just for me. I recently turned 40. On my birthday I decided to spend the second half of my life doing things I couldn't do during the first half. #Delhi2013 is the first big step towards keeping that most important promise. 

#Delhi2013 may be the greatest commitment I can make to myself in the next few years. At the same time, I wish to dedicate my participation to my friend Robert, who died two days ago at age 40 from liver cancer. Robert was a quiet leader who stood up for people confronting discrimination. #Delhi2013 is a beautiful way to further his legacy. 

If I am selected to participate I will be fundraising to support this adventure through a phenomenal new online platform at www.volunteerforever.com. Please let me know if you would like to help me achieve this dream. 

Peace and blessings.